By Kate Kheel
The Fourth of July commemorates
the day the thirteen colonies in the “New World” declared independence from the
United Kingdom of Great Britain. What is independence? How does it inform our
culture and minds? Are we in-dependent
or inter-dependent beings…or
perhaps both? And might there be merit in also acknowledging and commemorating
on this day (or another) our inter-dependence
with all life forms and Earth?
Independence vs. Interdependence
Independence is the freedom of one entity to operate without the
control or coercion of another.
Independence is achieved by standing up for oneself and
defending one’s own agency. A feeling of self-sufficiency can also increase
independence as in the case of a child no longer needing or being dependent
upon a parent or guardian.
Inter-dependence occurs when two or more entities are mutually
reliant upon one another. Inter-dependence
is a fact of the natural world of which we humans play an integral role. Nature
is inherently one grand, profoundly inter-dependent organism/system.
As an inter-connected organism,
we rely on and need one another. We are on the same “team,” and feel invested
in our team’s successes, failures, and challenges. For the team’s success is
our success, and the team’s challenge is our challenge.
We instinctively reach out to
help teammates. At times assistance may involve applying painful medicine; but
with an understanding of our inter-dependence, even this is done with loving
care. We want our team – ourselves – to heal, live, and thrive.
Our civilization comprises
separate entities: individuals, the military, government, or human society, each
acting upon and often controlling one or more other entity. History can be seen
as a dualistic dance of hierarchy between superior and underling where the
underling (dependent one) experiences a loss of agency and may eventually seek
independence. In some instances, this results in conflict or war.
If we view others as discreet
entities separate from ourselves, often competing for limited resources and
love, there is a greater likelihood for underlying and unavoidable strife – For
one person’s abundance may be perceived as dependent on the scarcity of
another. The prevalence of this way of perceiving and operating in the world
results in a top-down paradigm where the one on top envisions and dictates
policies and customs for themselves and those they deem, and/or who are in
fact, dependent on them.
If we sense our inter-dependence and inherent
oneness, what follows naturally is respect and care for all living beings and Earth
herself. For wherefore goes another, therefor go I. We pivot from a place of
viewing ourselves and others as separate beings either controlling or being
controlled by another, to inter-dependence
where we understand and feel that we, all living beings, the Earth and Heavens
are one inter-connected, inter-reliant Being.
Residing solely in the independency/dependency model of the
world, if left unchecked, can
lead to societal actions that may bring us to the edge of extinction – E.g. nuclear
war, the 5G/satellite/IoT/AI/systems warfare juggernaut, or Climate Change.
But if we reside solely in the world of inter-dependence, and do not
acknowledge our instinctual feeling of perceived individuated identity, we risk
not being able to function practically in the world where we need at least a
modicum of “self” to seek food, shelter and meaning.
Ideally, the
“I-am-a-separate-entity” and the “connected-with-all-life” world views, can
work together synergistically, each offering its own gift, together or at times alternately, to our perception, understanding, and navigation of the world.
Our sense of Inter-dependence
is being uprooted
At this point in time, our sense of inter-dependence
is being uprooted. The metaphorical “umbilical cord” that connects us to Mother
Earth has been severed. We are increasingly being corralled into cyber
space and becoming more and more dependent on technology to meet our basic
needs, be they for sustenance, news, entertainment, sense of belonging, or
friendship. Our growing dis-connect from one another and from Earth have become
ever more pronounced by covid lockdowns, masking, social distancing, and yet
greater reliance on digital text and sound “bytes”.
Over-whelmed by “info-pollution”
– I.e., the sheer quantity of information and communications that inundate us
daily – these have become “cheap” and less substantive. In much the same way we
are still hungry after a full meal of fast foods that provide empty calories
but little to no nutritive value, information we imbibe from our screened-in,
info-polluted way of life leaves us hungry for meaningful and real-world interpersonal
connection.
Moreover, the communications
themselves have veered into disinformation and censorship. “Facts” are often
unverifiable. We can no longer rely on language to be the “bridge” that
connects us to one another. Not unlike the story of the Tower of Babel – the
iconic Biblical symbol of disconnection of one person from another – we no
longer speak the same language. I.e., language no longer serves reliably as the
connective fabric that holds us together when abiding in the individuated
identity mindset.
The world seeks to
self-correct
Although, as a species, we are
out of balance now and wreaking havoc on all life, the world (like all living
beings) seeks to self-correct…to heal, and another shift is taking place
simultaneously. More and more people are awakening to an understanding of our
inherent oneness and to a deep care for Mother Earth. Many are
choosing to flee urban areas to live on the land and connect with friends and
community at the local level – Person to person, face-to-face, and heart-to-heart.
Should we turn the clocks back…go
back in time? Or could the dissolution of genuine communication be labor pains
birthing a new way of apprehending reality that by-passes language? Could it be heralding a time when we are
(once again) intensely aware of our connection to all life, and no longer
solely reliant on the “crutch” of language, information, and facts? A time when we “get” things intuitively,
deeply, thoughtfully, and feeling fully…but this time, with the addition of
something new.
What’s different now?
The 21st century world
offers unique possibilities that were not available in earlier times. We have a
new tool now, the internet, that allows us to know what’s going on in
distant parts of the world. Indeed, even though the internet grew out of, and
is an integral part of the “I-am-a-separate-entity” world view, if used well, it
can underscore, and even enhance society’s understanding of our
inter-connectedness.
Empathy is aroused when we “see” via
the internet, victims of war or famine, child slavery, the cruelty of factory
farms, or polar bears dying from starvation caused by habitat loss. The
internet also can help us share creative and practical solutions to address
problems we all face. We can communicate globally, amplify messages, build
coalitions, and send aid where needed. The internet and telecommunications help
us work together as one, for the good of all...If we so choose.
We need both ways of
perceiving and being in the world
What seems to be arising now is a
restoring of balance and a merging of both ways of apprehending the world – the
“I-am-a-separate-entity” and the “connected-with-all-life” viewpoints. As we
hold them together in our mind and heart, or perhaps pulse from one to the
other, we can begin to dissolve thick demarcation lines of the us/them paradigm
and envision other possibilities and solutions.
We need not go back to the way things were before our centuries-long escapade into duality. Collectively, as a society, we are shedding the skin of our old way of perceiving the world, and a new layer is forming beneath. The new model will likely rely more on intuition, but not entirely. For we can now benefit from possibilities the internet and other innovations provide. Language will likely remain, but our intuition will guide us toward more truth-filled communications.
If we soften into the inter-dependent view of the world by trusting
our intuition and tuning into our place in the natural world, we can discover
what we are being called to do, both as unique individuals and as a society.
Then with the aid of some of the tools of our 21st century work-a-day
world of individuated identities, we can set about bringing our vision into the
world.
How will the union of
paradigms inform our advocacy?
Holding both orientations in our minds and hearts
simultaneously will inform how we approach advocacy, be it for safe technology,
nuclear disarmament, the wise use of space or any other changes we wish to
bring about. The way each of us will show up in the world is an unknown, but
our advocacy will flow from a balanced and renewed way of seeing things.
Whatever form it takes, likely, our communications will be clearer, less
polarizing, and more effective, especially when speaking to those whose actions
we feel need correcting. For messages delivered from the heart can more easily
dissolve barriers and influence mindsets and actions.
May the visions for a more viable
future that arise from a deep understanding of our inter-dependence, be escorted into the world by the global “team”
with whom we are inseparably One…while still honoring and holding space for
light touch individuation in ourselves and others.
~ Kate Kheel is a musician and long time advocate for safer internet and telecommunications technology. She is a founding and active member of Stop 5G International, and an integral part of the team of SafeG, a coalition calling for greater reliance on wired (vs. wireless) technology. Kate serves on the Advisory Board of the Global Network and shares about the connection between 5G and the military, and how 5G and satellites, not only are a threat our health, privacy, security and to the environment, but additionally are being used to increase the lethality of war. She lives in Maryland.
